You may well know of a person who you care for somewhere who lately just gets on your nerves, rubs you up the wrong way, says mean things, acts in an offhand way. Don't get mad at them, don't shout at them, don't cut them off, don't push them away. You might just be all they have, you might well be the only person they feel that they can be like that with, they might be struggling with something deeply personal to them, they might just be reaching out to you hoping you can help or understand, they might find it all a little difficult so it comes out all the wrong way. Whatever it is, whoever they are if you really care you can make a difference, repair a rift, iron out a misunderstanding, swallow your pride and help them, 3 little words will make a difference, be they spoken or through deed - I and love and you.